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FAQs

For most of us, living in poverty is difficult to understand. To be without a job, without resources, without life's basic necessities, without family and friends, is beyond our comprehension. But understanding the problem of poverty is a critical first step to providing lasting solutions. That's why we've provided answers to some of the basic questions many of us share.
 
About low income moms

What types of moms are living below the poverty line?

- 24% are have large families
- 56% are substance abusers or are battered women
- 24% are adult women
- 15% are moms under 18
- 31% are mentally ill
- 12% are veterans

What circumstances can cause someone to be considered low income?

  • Poverty
  • Lack of affordable housing
  • Physical/mental illness or disability
  • Substance abuse
  • Job loss or decline in income
  • Domestic violence and abuse
  • Unemployment
  • Prison release
  • Downturn in the economy
  • Changes and cuts in public assistance programs
  • Family deterioration/abandonment
  • Years of institutional living (mental health, drug treatment, prison, foster care, etc.)

    A Difficult Childhood
    For many, the roots of poverty begin in childhood. Some have grown up never seeing someone get up and go to work every day. The only way they ever saw money come into the house was through a check from the government or through some kind of illegal activity. Many become addicted before they can even drive a car. They may have very limited skills, education, family support and understanding of what it means to be independent.

    Successful Lives Gone South
    There are others who have lived very successful lives-individuals with graduate degrees, impressive careers, families, and property. Somewhere along the line, their lives have been derailed by some unexpected or traumatic loss, discouragement, or hardship. They are overwhelmed by a sense of failure, guilt, or grief. Many begin to depend on alcohol and drugs to numb the pain, which can easily lead to addiction. Eventually, they become so full of shame, they would rather hide on the streets than reach out for help.

    Vulnerable Women and Children
    The saddest are the women and children. The numbers of women and children turning to us for help have increased over the past five years. Lack of low-income housing options coupled with disintegrating family relationships has traumatic effects. The average woman suffers a dramatic drop in income when a relationship ends, with many fathers failing to pay child support.

    What are some of the barriers low income moms face?

    PROBLEM #1: She can't read.
    Many low income moms are illiterate. They are unable to read "help wanted" ads or fill out a job application.
    SOLUTION: Through our learning workshops we help low income moms  improve their reading and other academic skills. Many of our students make great progress very quickly!

    PROBLEM #2: She has no phone number or address.
    Job applicants need a way for potential employers to contact them. But that's only the beginning. Enrolling a child in school, applying for appropriate aid, even filling out a rental application all require an address.
    SOLUTION: G.E.M.S. provides an address and contact phone number for men and women in our emergency shelter and recovery programs.

    PROBLEM #3: She has no job or life skills.
    Employees need job skills as well as relational skills to get along with bosses, coworkers, and customers. Low income moms from dysfunctional backgrounds often have neither.
    SOLUTION: Through hands-on work experience and classes, we help low incme momsdevelop the skills they desperately need to succeed. G.E.M.S. offers workshops and a variety of comprehensive programs for our moms with the goal of empowering them to live fulfilling, independent lives.

    PROBLEM #4: She has mental health or addiction issues.
    Severe depression; crippling addiction; problems like these often prevent homeless people from being successfully employed.
    SOLUTION: Through our Achieveology Programs, Back to Life-Back To Reality programs, and our mental health clinic, we can our moms make significant progress.

    PROBLEM #5: She has no clean clothes or place to shower.
    Being clean and presentable is a must for job interviews, but difficult to manage when you're living in a cardboard box or under a bridge.
    SOLUTION: G.E.M.S. provides showers and clean clothing for all of our moms. Before a job interview, we make sure our moms have appropriate, professional attire from head to toe.

  • How is welfare reform affecting low income moms?

    When welfare reform was passed in 1996, it granted state governments the freedom to craft their own welfare systems. More than five years later, local government agencies across the country continue to grapple with the issue of how best to help the poor without creating dependency.

    We are seeing women and families come toG.E.M.S. due to financial cutbacks in the system. With the implementation of a five-year lifetime cap on receiving welfare, we are anticipating an even greater increase in people seeking our services.

    What services are available for low income moms?

    Many services are available through private and public organizations, including long- and short-term shelter, transitional housing, counseling, medical and dental care, vision services, job training and placement, substance abuse programs, mental health, and transportation.

    However, getting the right help at the moment help is needed most is extremely difficult. Navigating the maze of services and agencies can be overwhelming. Meanwhile, the needs of the low income moms continue to exceed available help year after year.

    How is G.E.M.S. unique?
     
    We provide a comprehensive range of programs and services.  whereas many other service providers are able to concentrate on only one type of service. In addition to emergency shelter and food, G.E.M.S. provides recovery programs, counseling, education, physical fitness, and job training, and transitional housing.

    G.E.M.S. networks and partners with other area service providers to aid those who seek help beyond our scope of assistance.

    Does G.E.M.S. ever turn anyone away?

    At one point we tried to help every mom that came to our door, but we were unable to assist the moms who not only needed our help, but had a desire to change.  Therefore, we now limit our intake to only the number for which we can provide appropriate services. For some situations we have other options for assistance because  it's more difficult to help larger families, but we have managed to be quite successful in finding referrals to other programs and continue to Get Every Mother Situated.

    When a mom is abusing program rules and boundaries, they will be dismissed. In addition, if they are a danger to anyone else, our security and the police are called to address the situation. For the safety of all of our moms (particularly the increasing number of children), individuals with a known history of sexual offense, drug related felonys, or violent crimes will not receive services from G.E.M.S.; they will be referred to more appropriate facilities.

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